Preemptive strike
The biggest threat is from objects in its path. These might be coming so fast that there is no time to see the thing and act. The ship periodically fires an explosive shell ahead of it. The shell has a proximity sensor. If it gets close to something it sends a signal back, and explodes. The light from the explosion could be the signal.
The ship has other guns. If a shell ahead of the ship explodes, more shells are fired along the path of the ship. The object of these shells is to produce an explosion that moves the obstacle out of the way.
Objects coming in from the side are moving less fast. The ship watches for these with active sensors: big lights. Visible light works great in space.. If something is seen on a collison course, the ship opens fire on it to divert it.
As regards something in front of the ship that could withstand impacts: something cheap and dense. A nickel/iron asteroid you find will suffice. Maybe make it pointed, so particles will be deflected and not dump the entirety of their kinetic energy into your shield. The equivalent of aerodynamic, but as regards space particles not aer. If the shield starts getting thin, get another one.
I was thinking about the metal asteroid sharpened to a point. This would be a good look. The long point would be sharp and shiny with etched grooves along its length carved by deflected particles.